#5. Climaxing too soon/ too late This one is especially for men. You need to have good control on your muscles to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time.
Too soon and you may leave your partner unsatisfied; too late and it might leave your partner feeling as if they’re pumping iron at the gym.
To avoid this, spend a lot more time on foreplay (this will help men as well as women). If you take too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to get your partner to orgasm and then they can return you the favour.